RantsThoughts

Everyone seems to be having a bucket list and some of these things are mad scary. I know the ‘yolo’ feeling is strong but these things look extremely dangerous to Tomiwa Ekisola. I am definitely no Will smith simply because ‘I no wan die’. This blog post is just to

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Thoughts

As a girl, Society has basically hammered the ‘ if you don’t challenge anything, you would get your way’  repeatedly into my head. Our patriarchal culture glorifies the concept of being ‘more ladylike’ or ‘more feminine’. When a woman rejects status quo, she is seen a wild or better still

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PoetryThoughts

All these stories were inspired by true events. It may or may not be personal but it still hurts the same.   Chapter 1. It’s 2015 and I fall in love with a guy. Initially, it was roses and gold. Love was our torch through the dark path called life.

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Relationships and SexThoughts

Today we are delving into the world of the playboy. A playboy is someone that devotes himself to pleasure , he basically doesn’t have commitments or responsibilities. I have encountered a zillion playboys in my journey on planet earth. This has forced me to have a ‘playboy/ grown male’ radar.

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Features.

It’s an awful long read… I know, kindly take your time to go through. I promise it would be worth your while, if it’s not, comman collect the money for your data (lol). To buttress the statement “Be Young”, let’s view it from the opposite side of it, which is

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Relationships and SexThoughts

Great sex is supposed to blow your mind. It supposed to give you the feeling of satisfaction superheroes get when they defeat the villain(s). It makes you feel like you are gliding through the clouds. At the same time, it can get you stuck in a state of ‘sexual transmitted

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Let's talk politics.Thoughts

Election period is around the corner and everyone seems to be contesting. Posters and billboards flood the streets. On radio, on TV, everywhere campaign. There is an influx of various political parties promising hope, change and revolution but I do not see them making concrete breakthrough. The truth is that

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RantsThoughts

This is a mini blog post dedicated to the goats ( yes, I wrote goats ) , that come to disrupt my social media space. Social media has become an integral part of our lives and how you engage on the interwebs has become more important. The wind of social

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SeriesThoughts

Hello my people, let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, everything in the world wasn’t up for grabs on the internet. Then boom, social media arrived and the volcano of life erupted. In this era of social media the power of the king ‘ validation’ has increased.

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'HOW TO' guideThoughts

Happy new year my people. Last year, I discovered a new and effective way to keep new year resolutions: THE VISION BOARD. I am going to show you how a vision board can be an effective tool in achieving your goals this year. A vision board is a collection of

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