Relationships and SexThoughts

Our society in recent times has started having more solid conversations around sex. These conversations have also exposed that a lot of people lack sexual values.  So, what is consent? Agreement to do something.The fact that sexual values isn’t rated isn’t surprising because we don’t have conversations about sex.     Basic pillars   

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Thoughts

Hello my people, I know I have been gone for a while. Life happened mehn, finally started the work phase of this NYSC thing. I have been waking up 4 and getting home around 10. If you are wondering how this is even possible,I am basically travelling from Sango Ota

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SeriesThoughts

It’s official I ,Iretomiwa Ekisola, is a Lagos corper ( yes, Jesus is my connection). I know someone is rolling their eyes, yeah I have been gone for a while. I am sha back my people. Back to the topic, I am a Lagos corper. I will be documenting my

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Thoughts

Hello my people, it seems that I am getting serious. Showing up the second time this month, to Jesus be my glory. Hanyway, when I thought about support systems I immediately thought about bras. Which is odd because I do not like bras, yes I am in the ‘let the

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RantsThoughts

Hello my people, I have come to announce to you that creating anything in Nigeria can give any human serious headache. Creatives are not taken seriously in this blessed country. Creatives are constantly being underestimated by other professions and even by other creatives.I am sure you can sense I am

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Thoughts

Hello my people, I am here with a box of goodies. I have been listening to podcasts for a long time and I would like to tell you those I am vibing with. This blog post is to highlight podcasts that will definitely give you ‘mindgasms’. Sooo, let me begin.

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Relationships and SexThoughts

In romantic relationships we build worlds and it feels really terrible when that world gets destroyed. If It’s a kingdom as large as China or a face me I face you apartment with shaky foundation, the loss feels the same. Yes,yes not all breakups involve throwing glass cups. I admit

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RantsThoughts

Movies are supposed to be entertaining. Unfortunately some movies will make you scream ‘God, why?!’ .This blog post is dedicated to the most boring movies I have ever seen. The shape of water (2017): How this movie was nominated for several Oscars is a miracle to say the least. This

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RantsThoughts

Everyone seems to be having a bucket list and some of these things are mad scary. I know the ‘yolo’ feeling is strong but these things look extremely dangerous to Tomiwa Ekisola. I am definitely no Will smith simply because ‘I no wan die’. This blog post is just to

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Thoughts

As a girl, Society has basically hammered the ‘ if you don’t challenge anything, you would get your way’  repeatedly into my head. Our patriarchal culture glorifies the concept of being ‘more ladylike’ or ‘more feminine’. When a woman rejects status quo, she is seen a wild or better still

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